A BLOGGER FROM SPLIT CITY ( CROATIA) MEDITATES ON HER LIFE.....
Hello, dear readers and fellow bloggers. In this post, I'll let my thoughts wonder a bit as I touch on a number of subjects. In other words, I'll get philosophical. I started this post writing about my multiple moves, but somehow it has grown into meditations about identity. It all started with a move, though. I moved seven times in the last six months. Each move was different, and for different reasons. All of them were in some ways work related, and each move was challenging in its own way.
First I moved from Mostar to Medena (near Trogir), then from Medena to Seget Donji (also near Trogir), then from Seget Donji to island Hvar. First I stayed at a friend's house because accommodation is hard to find, and then I moved to another apartment that flooded, so I had to move again into another rented house. Life lately was quite eventful, resulting in lots of wonderful memories acquired in a short time, but also lots of stress and thinking. Every time I had to drag all my things, clothes, cooking appliances, all of it with me. During those moves, the stunningly beautiful Split city served as a sort of basis.
Of course, Split is not just a place to keep my stuff. Split is my hometown. It is still the place I live in, at least part of the time, mostly on weekends. The other part of the time I live on the island now. I kind of still live in Mostar as well. So, I'm split between multiple places now, and two countries. When I choose Split as my 'blogging' or pen last name, this is the meaning I meant to capture, this feeling of feeling 'split' (and also of course the reference to Split city I'm from). I still feel 'split', and I suppose all of us do at some time in our life. We all wear lots of hats, especially as we get older. It's part of the adventure that is life.
Fun, right? Well, sometimes it is fun. Sometimes it is exhausting, but that it life. At the moment, I'm ok with my life despite the challenges. I do not feel like I have a right to complain about anything anytime, not when everyone is fighting their own battles, and especially now when I'm quite lucky in some ways. This sometimes fun but often exhausting life is always filled with decisions, decisions, decisions. Big ones and small ones. They all seem to matter. Every day, new decisions to be made. Every day an opportunity to rebuild, destroy or wrack ourselves.
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| A little gif that shows me wondering from Port Captain's building to Split city promenade (on my way to catch the bus) |
Browsing my photographs, one might be inclined to assume I'm on a vacation. I know I'm blessed to live in places that seem to scream vacation destination. The truth is that I haven't had a vacation in a very long time. I certainly didn't have one this Summer. I had a working Summer, and my Autumn has been quite busy so far as well. Not that I'm complaining, for I might have a vacation soon. Having a job is something to be grateful for in this economy. Moreover, I'm working more standard hours this Autumn, not like my long working hours in the Summer.
I'm well aware that I have a lot to be thankful for. I really am. There is always something to be grateful for while we are alive and breathing. Perhaps these days I have more to be grateful than in some of the past ones. Hopefully, I learnt a thing or two over the years. Experience does have a way of making life easier. I can think of a many a year that was harder in more ways than one. Why am then so surprised if I feel tired? The year 2025 was an Odyssey journey of sorts so far. It really feels that way. One should be allowed to feel tired after such a journey. It is possible to feel both tired and grateful.
It all started with a job change. It was very hard for me to leave my job because a number of reasons. One of them was that I had a great relationship with my colleagues and everyone. I had worked there for almost three years at that point and really established myself. However, I felt there was no future there due to a number of factors I do not plan to discuss right now. So, that first job change in this series was in the last December.
Funny how when I did a recap of year 2024, I predicated that 2025 will be a year when I will work a lot. My prediction certainly came true. I worked a lot and I moved a lot as well. I started January at a new job in Mostar. Again, I really hit it off with my colleagues and a part of me wanted to stay, but I decided to go forward. Right away, I knew this was not the place for me to stay for long, so I told the boss that I will stay for as long as it takes for them to find a replacement. After two months, I moved forward. Leaving my previous job was not an easy decision, leaving this one wasn't either, but I knew I had to keep moving. When I left those those two jobs, I left with gifts and good wishes from the colleagues. It is hard to leave good coworkers, but we choose our work based on more than that. Once you get going, it gets easier, though. You can always stay in contact with your ex-colleagues. It might not feel the same as working with them every day, but it can still be really nice.
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| This photograph was taken last March in Split (about the same time as these brutalist ones). |
Anyhow, after those two job changes, I freelanced for some time while looking for a new job. I applied for a few different jobs, got accepted at them all, but I declined them because I knew they were not the ones for me. I worked freelance for a time, dividing my time between Herzegovina and Croatia until I started my new seasonal job in late April. This job was a seasonal one and in some ways it was easier to opt for it because it was temporary. I choose it after declining some other offers, so this one was not chosen without thought either.
I moved to Medena near Trogir and worked there in a tourist camp for a few months. It was not easy getting used to a new place to live in but on overall I enjoyed my job even if it was naturally challenging at times. Another move was to come there, because from there I was moved by my boss to another location (Seget Donji) where I worked until the end of the Summer. It was a good experience, but by the end of it was quite tired. I lived apart from my significant other for months, and that was certainly an experience that was out of the ordinary. This job was seasonal so I did not think too much about it, I always knew it was temporary. I finished my job there in pretty good spirits. I really hit it off with one Argentina coworker, and we had really a fun time before she flew out of the country.
Anyhow, Summer was coming to its end, I had a few job options and I was trying to decide on the right one, when an unexpected opportunity presented itself. I decided to accept it despite the challenges, the move and everything. I'm still not sure will I have to move again soon, but that is life. Renting can be an adventure. I do have a place of my own, a house, but we cannot always be fortunate enough to live in our home. We try to make the most we can with what we have, and find some beauty in life in the process. The beauty is always there, present in one way or other, but we cannot always see it.
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| A collage of my two catamaran outfits. The Autumn sun was kind, so I could pose without the coat. |
| My oil on canvas dating back to 2014! I was just learning how to use oil paints here, but I had to paint my beautiful Split. |
Other notable places I illustrated in Split city include:
ZENTA MARINE MATEJUŠKA, SPLIT CITY (CROATIA) //, SPLIT CITY (CROATIA) / ŽNJAN BEACH, SPLIT CITY (CROATIA) // A SEAVIEW FROM A PARK (SPLIT, CROATIA) // PHOTODIARY: EN PLEIN AIR SKETCH// OIL PASTELS VS. WATERCOLOUR PENCILS (SPLIT, FIRULE ) // FASHION AND LOCATION ILLUSTRATION (SPLIT)
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| I seem to really love illustrate Split city...and can you blame me? |
Let us not forget about this oversized tartan scarf (New Yorker if I remember well) I nicked from my husband!
1-2) The first post where I have actually worn it and I styled it two ways with two different coats and same jeans:
https://modaodaradosti.blogspot.com/2019/02/two-casual-ways-to-wear-oversize-tartan.html
3) Last year around this time with a vintage skirt and a tweed jacket:
https://modaodaradosti.blogspot.com/2024/12/merry-christmas-and-happy-holidays-with.html
4-7) You can also see two recaps featuring this tartan scarf in 3 outfits:
https://modaodaradosti.blogspot.com/2021/12/5-december-outfits-mini-fashion-recap.html
https://modaodaradosti.blogspot.com/2021/01/january-recap-10-outfits-i-loved-wearing.html
So, originally I wanted to share the two recent outfits I wore for the catamaran ride, but then I decided to squeeze in another outfit that I wore back in March. It is very similar to my second catamaran styling, with the same leggings, boots and a coat. It is sort of my get to outfit, is it not?

I already linked up most outfits from this styling above, so I'll only put links for this blue ruffled mini dress.















Lindos atuendos. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteGracias.
DeleteYou look so beautiful! 😍
ReplyDeleteThank you. You are beautiful, too...and inside out!
DeleteIvana, thank you for sharing the complexities of your life and telling us about your numerous moves. Of course, this can be exhausting, even for someone as active as you.
ReplyDeleteI read in a book that moving is like a fire. When you move, you have to give up a number of things that you later look back on with regret. I'm writing about my many moves back then, when I was a student, and then after I graduated and went to work at a school.
That is certainly how moving can feel. It is one thing to pack for a vacation and quite another to pack for moving one's life around. One indeed has to leave things behind one regrets. Thank you, Irina. I always appreciate your comments.
Deleteya que te has referido muchas veces a las limitaciones, es la primera vez que leo un post tuyo de un tirón a pesar del tiempo limitado que tengo (son la 1:50 de la madrugada) y hace 50 minutos que debería de estar acostado; pero no me quejo, pues ha sido un placer leerte, saber cómo piensas, tus reflexiones acerca de la vida, de las mudanzas, los diferentes cambios de trabajo que has tenido y conocer los bonitos lugares por donde transitas.
ReplyDeletetu post me hizo acordar sobre una reflexión que le hice a un bloguero argentino que también trató sobre el tema de la vida: "en esta vida se hace lo que se puede y la mayoría de veces nos equivocamos."
me han gustado tus dibujos.
un abrazo.
Gracias!:)
DeleteOh..you truly are a Wonder Woman, I don't know how you do it. But I am certain you must be so organized and know how to make the most with so little from your travels and moves. I am glad so many elements and variables have been good to you and you have found a way to keep going. You might never want to settle down. But I think of how many you have reached. From you blog, from work, from travels. And I am glad to hear you have time for your art in these beautiful places. Here, it is hibernating season. The snow came, then the harsh cold. Definitely, a time to stay put. I know, I'm a rather stationary, and I'm happy to see so many grow from where I work. It was splendid to read about "Split"! 🎀🎀🎀🎀🎀🎀 Wishing you downtime for the holidays with friends and family. Thank you for your comments and your amazing commentary!
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteThis was a wonderful post to read. It was great getting your insight from your opportunities and what you have learned from them. Of course, I can't imagine moving so much. Although, when I was younger and we moved in the military I tended to get rid of things better than I do now. I do hope you have much success this new year! As always! You look fabulous! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💕💕💕💕💕💕💗💗💗💗💗💗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so for your comments! I always enjoy reading your comments! Thanks for reading and your input. 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄Wish you sweet holiday moments and delightful times where the cherry dress will take you 🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒🍒
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DeleteHello,
ReplyDeleteThis post really came from deep within you. I envy how easily you change jobs and cities. I am averse to that and don't have the energy that you have, even though you also have a complicated illness! I loved hearing that you have been a warrior and that you don't give up the fight! I wish you luck in whatever job you choose and hope you are very happy!
Have a great Sunday!
PS: I loved the photos and the outfits, you really look like a tourist in your own country!
Thank you, Marisa!
DeleteJust passing by to wish you and your family a Merry and Holy Christmas! I hope it's filled with only good things!
DeleteA hug from Portugal!
I wish you all the best in 2026! Hug from Portugal
DeleteYour update about your life situation is fascinating to read, so much has happened in the last few months. You're so lucky to live where you do, and I love all the photos.
ReplyDeleteMost importantly: I wish you as many good health days as possible. 💗
Thank you!
DeleteIvana, you have brilliantly explained the struggles in life and the job search, the difficulties of today's choices, but also the beauty of choices when you have a husband who follows and supports you. I wish you a Merry Christmas, a Happy New Year, lots of health and love in the coming years ❤️ Leon
ReplyDeleteThank you
DeleteA lovely post and you look fabulous in all your outfits! You are so fortunate to live where you do, even though you work hard and have had to move many times it must make so much of a difference to have warmth, sunshine and longer hours of daylight - the reason so many Brits love to travel but sadly, due to the idiots who voted for Brexit, are unable to live or work in Europe!
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I think Split actually has a better approach to digital nomads now and the paperwork is not as complicated as it used to be.
DeleteSounds like you've been having quite a stressful time of late, although you seem to be taking it all in your stride. No wonder that it's been taking a toll on your energy levels!
ReplyDeleteAt times like these, it is definitely worth it to take stock of one's life and I'm sure that putting your thoughts and feelings on paper - so to speak - and thus put things into perspective, can be really cathartic! Sending you much love! xxx
It is stressful for sure, but also interesting:). Thank you.
DeleteI'm back, Ivana, because I saw a new post yesterday, but I didn't have the energy to write much, although it's true that you always look beautiful.
ReplyDeleteAs for the moves, I admire you and know what it means, because they're constantly with me. I simply understand. And I'm not surprised you feel torn and tired, Ivana. I also know you're a very smart girl. And you're absolutely right – life is a learning process. Constantly, from beginning to end.
I've lived in Wrocław, Dzierżoniów, and Jelenia Góra, and I returned to my hometown of Bolesławiec twice before settling here permanently.
I'm also constantly moving at work; this is my third building, and the school has been the same for almost twenty years. But before I came to my current school, I worked in many places: in libraries, archives, schools, and I was also a journalist.
Best regards, I'll be back. Hugs!
Thank you JoAnna. It is lovely to know all the places you have lived in.
DeleteIn Croatia, I have lived in Rijeka, Umag, Krk island and Cavtat (near Dubrovnik).
I have also lived on Sicily for 4 and half months.
Hello Ivana! I wish you happy, beautiful and lovely time, Merry Christmas 🎄🎁🎄 Greetings from the winter Gdańsk, all the best for you! ☃️🌨️❄️🌊
DeleteBoa segunda-feira minha querida amiga Ivana. Realmente mudanças por motivo de trabalho são complicadas. Split é uma das cidades da Croácia que eu gostaria muito de conhecer. Grande abraço do seu amigo do Brasil.
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DeleteIt is wonderful that you live in a place that is like a vacation destination. I love taking trips. We lived really busy and stressful lives and trips help us break the routine and spend some more time together.
ReplyDeleteThank you.
DeleteGiving yourself permission to complain is okay! We can know that life isn't easy, that there will be obstacles, but not really KNOW until we experience it. This sounds like a hugely difficult year for you, Ivana, so reflecting on that seems like a necessary thing. Sending you good wishes, that you will have a year of less-hard work, good health and not to move again!
ReplyDeleteI have to move again by the end of the month. My landlady has just sent me a message! I guess this is the year of moving for me.
DeleteHello Ivana! I hope you are doing well. I'm just getting back to blogging more again and I miss the safe and humble space it offers. I agree with you on a lot of things that you wrote, especially about change and the wonders of being grateful even though life throws us off. Earlier this tear, I changed my job too even though I had great relationship with my coworkers. Still, change was necessary and it was one of the best decisions and blessings I had. I also assumed you were in a vacation. Hehe Happy that you qre doing well despite the constant movements in your life. I would say Split is pretty much like Cebu City here in the Philippines. It's also the second most populous, but more laid back than Manila. I also love my city so much. I hope I get to visit Split someday. 🥰❤ Our dreams have no limit!
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DeleteGreat reflections! And it's true that life is often exhausting, but it also has good things, even with the challenges.
ReplyDeleteGood luck in this phase and I liked the photos :)
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DeleteDear Ivana, this is such a wonderful post and lovely photos. You look beautiful. I wish you good health, happiness and peace. Thank you so much for sharing. 😊
ReplyDeleteThanks Linda
DeleteI’m inspired by your resilience and how you keep finding beauty in the everyday moments, even in the midst of challenges. Wishing you calm days, creative inspiration, and continued joy in both your travels and your blog.
ReplyDeleteI really love your take on how limitations can be liberating. It’s a great reminder that having to adapt is often where we find our real strength and creativity.
ReplyDeleteIndeed. Our ability to adapt is one of the things that make us human.
DeleteI think I really needed to read this post today. I apologise for not having read or commented on your posts for ages. I kept trying to get them on my phone but my brain has been finding it hard to stay focused on reading on screen in recent times and I just didn't want to read and not be able to leave a long comment as you are such a diligent blog friend and reader. You are so right about what you say about change and gratitude and all that. I have been experiencing a lot of blues and anxiety (it's 40's hormones) and finding it really hard to shift that, despite knowing how lucky I am and it's really good to read the way you write about it so sensitively. I am in awe of your ability to adapt to job, location, home accommodation as well as your ill health and I hope that your new year will be one where you do get to rest more. You are right about how we spend leisure time too. I am so lucky I have relatives I can stay with.
ReplyDeleteYou are right about what you write about consumerism. I have been trying not to buy so many things, even if they are second hand as I have TOO MUCH and you are right, it loses its meaning and creativity and in my case, you are stifled by the amount of stuff you have, plus the effect it has on my loved one!
I really enjoyed your catamarran outfit!
Sending you much love for this Christmas tide!
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment, Kezzie. Happy holidays!
Deleteacabo de leer todos los comentarios. uno puede terminar creyendo que el mudarte constantemente es como una especie de karma en tu vida; pero entiendo (o tengo la idea según lo que me cuentan) que conseguir una vivienda propia en europa es un tanto difícil por su gran costo y que es por eso que la gente a menudo alquila y tiene que mudarse constantemente.
ReplyDeleteleo que en enero del 2026 ya debes estar instalada en tu nueva casa. yo me mudé sólo una vez en mi vida. eso ocurrió entre los doce y trece años y después de algunas décadas, sigo viviendo en la misma casa.
te deseo lo mejor y que pases una muy feliz navidad al lado de tu familia.
Gracias!
DeleteCiao Ivana, tutti questi traslochi in pochi mesi non devono essere facili. Un conto è fare le valigie per un viaggio di piacere, un conto è farle per trasferirsi in una nuova città o in un nuovo appartamento.
ReplyDeleteUn saluto e buon Natale 😘
Grazie. Buon Natale!
DeletePaso a desearte una feliz navidad para ti y tu familia. Te mando un beso
ReplyDeleteFeliz Navidad!
DeleteDear Ivana, I would like to wish you a very Merry Christmas filled with joy, good health and peace. Warm hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteThank you .
DeleteMerry Christmas! 🎀💕🎄❤️🎄💕🎀
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DeleteMerry Christmas blessings. May you continue to find joy in all things.
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Merry Christmas. After all those moves and hard work, I truly hope you’re getting one of those "stolen" moments of repose today. May your heart feel settled and at peace, no matter which city you’re in. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteI moved a lot as a child and now as an adult crave the peace that comes with consistency. As an adult, I've lived in my current home for 19 years. The next time I move it will be into my forever home. The idea of making multiple moves in a short span would stress me out! But I love your attitude and how you go with the flow and embrace the change. That's such a great outlook to have!
ReplyDeleteI like to believe that my choice of fashion is quite sustainable. I wear my clothes for years and often times buy second hand or accept clothing from my daughter when she's ready to pass it on. I belong to a free group in our community and we often pass around bags of clothing to each other as the seasons change. We take what we want from the bag, add clothing we are done with, then pass along to the next person, and so on. It's a great way to refresh the wardrobe, but save money and not pollute the planet at the same time.
Boa tarde de sexta-feira, minha querida amiga Ivana. Grande abraço do Brasil.
ReplyDeleteEspero que o seu Natal, tenha sido maravilhoso.
ReplyDeleteyou look truly amazing dear!
ReplyDeleteIvanna, what a moving post! It must be overwhelming to have to move so often. I do it every four or five years because I still don't have my own place, and it's exhausting. Sometimes it's good to let it all out to feel lighter. I agree with you that most people insist on thinking that not everyone has problems or challenges when that's part of life. But it's good to vent from time to time and get rid of that burden. Split has wonderful places to create memories; the architecture and the city are truly beautiful. Kisses.
ReplyDeletedear Ivana, I like this post so much cause it's so real- Yes you have right life is hard, but nobody promissed us that it is gonna be different. To survive we have to find this small thing that make us happy. I hate move from ona place to another. You had to do it a lot and I admire it caues for me this all packing, moves are difficult. I hate them.
ReplyDeleteWish you all the best in 2026 dear xx
Great life considerations, very inspiring and supporting! Wish you a wonderful and happy New Year and may all your plans come true!
ReplyDeleteP.S.: I visited Split and Trogir a few years ago, great vacance destinations!
Feliz Ano Novo!
ReplyDeleteJá estou entre seus amigos.
Venha se juntar aos meus amigos comedores de lasanha. rsrsrsrs
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Que hermosos outfits, eres bellísima!!
ReplyDeleteVeo por las fotos que has hecho algunas cositas, que difícil es la parte de mudarse todo el tiempo no debe ser nada fácil y debe ser muy estresante pero también entiendo que a veces debe ser asi, toma cada oportunidad que tengas pues no a todos les toca eso.
Feliz 2026!
Happy New Year my dear friend🍾🥂🥳 All the best in your life🥰
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year my dear friend 🍾🥂🥳
ReplyDeleteAll the best in your life 🥰