tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post5414926982344997290..comments2024-03-24T14:36:08.084-07:00Comments on a little place to call my own (art and fashion blog): Body Perception: To Talk About It Or Not To talk About It? / Percepcija tijela: razgovarati o njoj ili ne? Ivana Splithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-39020203241249799612017-03-08T04:52:16.275-08:002017-03-08T04:52:16.275-08:00Imala bih tu toliko toga da kažem ali ću pokušati ...Imala bih tu toliko toga da kažem ali ću pokušati da skratim priču. Mislim da je iza cele percepcije tela zapravo marketing. Jednostavno, to se prodaje, kao npr. što će sad početi iz frižidera da izlaze reklame o kremama za celut jer kako možeš da se skineš u kupaći ako isti imaš jer moraš biti savršena. A šta je pa savršeno? Neko je mršav, neko je krupniji, neko je vitak sam od sebe, nekome je metabolizam ovakav, nekome onakav. Neko je sam sebe doveo do kritične tačke svojim stilom života, a neko jer se u tome krije psihički problem koji možda ni nema veze sa telom. Stvarno ne volim da osuđujem druge, niti mi treba osuda ni potvrda sa tuđe strane. O telu ipak treba voditi računa jer kao što kaže neki citat, gde bismo onda živeli ako ga ne sačuvamo, ali čovek nije samo skelet sa organima. Činjenica da zdrave navike utiču pozitivno kako za telu, tako i za dušu i niko me neće ubediti da ne treba voditi računa o njima, ali svaka opsesija je negativna. Mislim da treba voditi računa o sebi u svakom smislu, ali isto tako živeti po nekim sopstvenim standardima jer kad je čovek veran sebi, onda je valjda i zadovoljan i svojim odrazom u ogledalu. Makar kod mene to tako ide ;)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17719582700116124382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-83168215536454984272017-03-07T23:48:31.460-08:002017-03-07T23:48:31.460-08:00I totally agree with so much of what you are sayin...I totally agree with so much of what you are saying. We constantly talk about body image, but at the same time we need to talk about other positive attributes about ourselves as well. In the US at least, women are often overwhelmed with the pressure to look perfect by an unrealistic and often unreachable standard. It is unfortunate, but it is true. Women are tired of being held to this standard of perfection and so embracing our diverse looks and sizes is so very important.<br /><br />astylishlovestory.blogspot.comJoanna Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13432873052143391663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-63457085212482456562017-03-04T15:07:22.018-08:002017-03-04T15:07:22.018-08:00thank you Luisa<3thank you Luisa<3Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-45403095182479918882017-03-04T13:11:15.192-08:002017-03-04T13:11:15.192-08:00beautiful!
Luisabeautiful! <br />LuisaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15451092618974641392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-63619456060095815062017-03-04T13:07:31.231-08:002017-03-04T13:07:31.231-08:00I do agree. Today I have a feeling like everyone i...I do agree. Today I have a feeling like everyone is inspecting everyone's body- and honestly I find it slightly disturbing. Some of us are private about our bodies and don't like that kind of talk.Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-40593333556098320332017-03-04T12:58:41.961-08:002017-03-04T12:58:41.961-08:00yes, everyone is talking about it these day and th...yes, everyone is talking about it these day and they expect us to talk about it too. Some people are more private and they don't like to talk about certain things- and other people should learn to respect that. Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-84297487370269106882017-03-04T12:34:12.386-08:002017-03-04T12:34:12.386-08:00Body perception and shaming has been an issue for ...Body perception and shaming has been an issue for so long as I can remember. Nowadays thin people get the blame and shame, just a silly example, you know I don't like sweets or ice cream or any such things. Guess what, saying No thank you, get's me an...oh afraid of gaining weight, are you...you are far too thin anyway....you look like a skeleton covered with skin....Gosh, what the h..l I am neither ashamed of being thin nor I am ashamed of my many other flaws, they making me the person I am. Sorry this wasn't meant to be a rant, I think, the less we talk about so called *body flaws* the better it is. There is no such thing. We are all what we are, unique. Period. <br />Happy weekend, Ivana<br />hugs<br />Lenya<br /><a href="http://fashiondreamsandlifestyle.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">latest look: Movie Blues </a>Lenyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17699141466844219551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-84703584338420177842017-03-04T12:34:05.977-08:002017-03-04T12:34:05.977-08:00Dear Ivana, you know what? Nearly everybody in my ...Dear Ivana, you know what? Nearly everybody in my social environment is talking about his/her body. Normally I never contribute anything about my body in this context. This means I don't speak about if I think I'm too thick, too thin or to little or whatever. Personally I'm happy with this solution and I try also in the context of my blog not directly to talk about my body. The only person with whom I speak about my body is my husband as I have the opinion one's body is personal thing and as you mentioned so right: important are our souls and brains - and we are as human beings.<br />xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena <br /><b><a href="http://dressedwithsoul.com/" rel="nofollow">www.dressedwithsoul.com</a></b><br />Dressed With Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07295634594192337762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-34353586497963652642017-03-04T11:21:35.684-08:002017-03-04T11:21:35.684-08:00p.s. that comment from your ex was terrible. Some ...p.s. that comment from your ex was terrible. Some people are really messed up. Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-8439471601219730232017-03-04T11:20:36.205-08:002017-03-04T11:20:36.205-08:00I have had my share of skin problems too so I can ...I have had my share of skin problems too so I can sympathize. Our face is the first thing people see, so having acne can really mess up our confidence. Right now my skin isn't perfect but it calmed down a little and even if I still get acne sometimes, but when I used to have all those problems people were always telling me what I need to do- it was getting on my nerves. Like it is not bad enough having bad skin without others rubbing it in.Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-26602557526138203482017-03-04T11:17:41.409-08:002017-03-04T11:17:41.409-08:00I agree. Skinny shaming is becoming so widespread,...I agree. Skinny shaming is becoming so widespread, it's worrying me.Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-11794702189920302002017-03-04T11:16:57.552-08:002017-03-04T11:16:57.552-08:00<3<3Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-49296167544018592392017-03-04T11:15:23.505-08:002017-03-04T11:15:23.505-08:00yes, sometimes is does become an obsession. A heal...yes, sometimes is does become an obsession. A healthy sense of self is a good prevention for that. I think it always helps to know that we're more than our bodies.Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-62189678730024748722017-03-04T09:57:49.822-08:002017-03-04T09:57:49.822-08:00Body perception is a hard topic, I had a situation...Body perception is a hard topic, I had a situation when after a break up my ex-boyfriend told me that who wants a clothes hanger as a girlfriend, I never had a problem with accepting my skinny body, the only thing I don't accept is my skin condition - it's not flawless and honestly it's sad that people can't accept that my skin is different, usually when you have acne people assume that you don't wash your face... damn! I'm spending more hours than them on skincare and bodycare and they are going to tell me what should I do? For me every body is pretty - no matter if this thin or curvy, if the skin is white or brown, no matter how you look or where are you from every person is equal for me and I accept other people as they are. Everyone is perfect on it's own way :)Bambihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15886195413368970597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-17631278241533323442017-03-04T08:21:14.897-08:002017-03-04T08:21:14.897-08:00I agree with what Kim said, body perception and sh...I agree with what Kim said, body perception and shaming have been some of the biggest issues ever since I could remember. I'm glad that there are lots of movement and campaign to accept different sizes especially plus size women but now I am seeing another trend which is shaming thin women. It's NOT right either way and unless someone is in danger of his/her health then let them be.<br /><br />Shireen | <a href="http://reflectionofsanity.com" rel="nofollow">Reflection of Sanity </a>Shireen L. Platthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16568748266468116252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-61631323338474761882017-03-04T07:42:10.754-08:002017-03-04T07:42:10.754-08:00Ivana, this is beautifully written. Body perceptio...Ivana, this is beautifully written. Body perception & shaming has been an issue for so long. It happens in business & also personally. I think much more is done nowadays than before. I think a strong self esteem & sense of self is important to overcome this. I always try to encourage others. There's nothing wrong with wanting to improve oneself, but when it becomes an obsession...there becomes a problem.<br />http://www.averysweetblog.com/A Very Sweet Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00952918199561874968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-32012799095769638902017-03-04T05:53:06.851-08:002017-03-04T05:53:06.851-08:00perfect!
NEW BLOG ! please follow me : YOUNG BLOG...perfect!<br /><br />NEW BLOG ! please follow me : <a href="http://www.shein.com/Check-Plaid-Self-Tie-Shirt-Dress-p-322476-cat-1727.html?utm_source=thecolorfulthoughts.blogspot.sk&utm_medium=blogger&url_from=thecolorfulthoughts" rel="nofollow">YOUNG BLOG</a>Adrikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16487997768886233568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-9261580071663785302017-03-04T05:45:40.301-08:002017-03-04T05:45:40.301-08:00and I couldn't agree more.and I couldn't agree more.Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-82038095294683080822017-03-04T05:45:24.279-08:002017-03-04T05:45:24.279-08:00thank you Caramellathank you CaramellaIvana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-71374773491461429012017-03-04T05:35:15.783-08:002017-03-04T05:35:15.783-08:00thanks Anyathanks AnyaIvana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-9851131250812039442017-03-04T05:35:03.167-08:002017-03-04T05:35:03.167-08:00<3<3Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-37568249057241258532017-03-04T05:32:12.796-08:002017-03-04T05:32:12.796-08:00thank you<3thank you<3Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-31971686061410529622017-03-04T05:31:36.225-08:002017-03-04T05:31:36.225-08:00Da, tako se i ja osjećam...nije da sam mislim da s...Da, tako se i ja osjećam...nije da sam mislim da sam posebno zgodna, nego se ne zamaram previše time kako izgledam. Meni je isto ta tema nezadovoljstva tijelom dosadila, pa ću joj probati prići na neki svoj način. O teroru zdravom hranom se isto može puno toga reći, to je postao pravi poremećaj i mislim da znam barem dvoje troje koji od toga pate.Ivana Splithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908566377732204399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-38177277619013383662017-03-04T03:22:30.112-08:002017-03-04T03:22:30.112-08:00Ovaj post je baš jedno osvježenje u moru priča o s...Ovaj post je baš jedno osvježenje u moru priča o sveopćem nezadovoljstvu izgledom koje svakodnevno preskačem jer su već dosadili i bogu i vragu. Ja sam recimo uvijek bila zadovoljna sa sobom, ali najiskrenije da ti kažem nikad nisam o tome ni razmišljala jer su mi puno važniji bili rad na sebi i borba za ostvarenje nekih svojih ciljeva. Mislim da sve ionako proizlazi iz stava, odnosa prema životu i onoga što je u glavi jer je sve ostalo površno. A da ne počinjem o teroru (pre)zdravom prehranom koji me zapravo nervira najviše od svega, o tome bi mogla pričati danima. Veselim se budućim člancima na ovu temu, već vidim da će biti jako zanimljivi! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07151361671794180492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4850565263129103413.post-12614258552260773182017-03-04T01:30:37.995-08:002017-03-04T01:30:37.995-08:00This is a topic that should indeed be talked about...This is a topic that should indeed be talked about. And you're very right. Every kind of body type is beautiful, whether curvy, skinny or in-between. Your drawings are beautiful, by the way!<br /><br /><a href="http://hungrycaramella.blogspot.it/" rel="nofollow">http://hungrycaramella.blogspot.it/</a><br /><br />Caramellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11212330454015040075noreply@blogger.com